2006/10/24 Tuesday

Morning Sickness

 

One of the most common signs of pregnancy is morning sickness. Just because it is common does not mean you are going to get it. Some women do and some women never feel a thing. It may also differ between pregnancies in the same woman. A woman who had no morning sickness during her first pregnancy may get a bad case of it during her second. You just never know. Morning sickness is not usually how it is portrayed on television however, and each woman will experience it just a little differently.

Morning sickness can happen at any point in a pregnancy. Some get it in the earliest days and it goes away, while others are sick the entire time. There are some women who get it late in pregnancy though they were fine in the early months. When you get it will be up to your body. You may also have a short bout of it early in pregnancy only to have it disappear and then reappear later down the road. You never know when or where morning sickness will strike, but at least you know why you are having it.

Morning sickness also happens during any time of the day, not just in the morning. Morning may be the most common time to feel unwell, but that doesnÃÕ mean it will happen for you that way. Some women have it strictly at night, and yet other unfortunate moms to be have in throughout the entire day for the duration of their pregnancies. These women may be the ones who smile through their labor and delivery no matter how much pain they are in. They may just be happy to know the sickness if finally going to leave them alone.

There are many products out there that are designed to help combat morning sickness, but you should talk to your doctor before you try anything new. ItÃÔ not just your health that you have to consider now, as you also have to think of your baby. Any morning sickness cure that has to go into your mouth or on your skin can harm both of you, so ask your doctor first. Besides, you may be surprised to find simple remedies that your doctor gives you will work the best for you, and you may just have to sleep more and eat less during the part of the day you are more likely to experience morning sickness.

Depression and anxiety

My husband and I have been married for over twenty years. He is nine years older than I am. He was thirty four and I was twenty five when we were married. We have had many happy and wonderful times as well as some sad times. Through them all we have continued to put our relationship ahead of everything else that life tosses our way. We found out after we were married for a short while that we could not have children. This was difficult, but we adjusted and built a comfortable life for the two of us. We struggled through the sudden death of my brother as well as the death of my father. We each changed jobs several times and we have owned three homes. I was diagnosed with a chronic form of arthritis. For the past three years my husband has struggled with depression and anxiety. We are still living together but this has been the greatest struggle of our lives.

Unlike the physical illness I have my husband’s illness is difficult for others to understand. People do not want to talk about or hear about mental health issues. There is still the stigma that a person with depression and anxiety should just snap out of it. It is hard to understand something that you have not experienced yourself. For my husband the depression and anxiety are part of his diagnosis of post traumatic stress disorder. He was in the army and served in Viet Nam when he was twenty years old. He has never talked very much about his military time. He did get involved in heavy drug use when he first got out of the army. He went through chemical dependency treatment when he was thirty years old and has maintained his sobriety for all these years. He has not struggled with depression and anxiety or any of the other symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder until three years ago.

We are not sure what triggered this for him. We are both learning more about the disorder through reading as well as being involved with group meetings at the veteran’s administration hospital. He has been placed on medications for the depression and anxiety, however he does not like the way he feels while taking them. The psychiatrist that is prescribing the medications has tried different kinds with my husband over the three years, however he has not found the best combination yet. My husband continues to work however the depression and anxiety make it difficult for him to be as effective as he was in the past. There is no cure for his disorder; he needs to learn techniques to help control the depression and anxiety.

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